Understanding our Kids
Every child and parent is unique. These resources support parents in understanding their children and building deeper, more meaningful connections.
The Four Temperaments

The four temperaments describe inborn traits that shape how children think, feel, and respond to the world. While personality develops over time, temperament is the starting point.
Understanding your child’s temperament (and your own) brings insight that helps you parent with greater patience and confidence.
Recommended Books - audio versions available
A different take on Temperaments: Roosters & Lambs
The Five Love Languages

Understanding your child through the five love languages helps you see how they best give and receive love. Developed by Gary Chapman, a relationship counsellor and author, this approach encourages you to notice what your child asks for and responds to most, helping you build a stronger, more connected relationship.
Further Reading:
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Official Website: Love Languages
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Helpful Articles:
Recommended Books - audio versions available
Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
by Gary Chapman
5 Love Languages
Of Children
by Gary Chapman & Ros Campbell
Parenting Boys
Recommended Books - audio versions available
Parenting Boys
Recommended Books - audio versions available
Please note: The resources shared on this page have been recommended and gathered by parents within the OLOR School & Parish community.
They arise from the lived experience of parents supporting one another and are not intended as official recommendations of the School or Parish.










